I want to sit on his face

One fundamental truth about the language of sex is that some words and expressions are immediately, viscerally hot, while others are really not. As an expression, an act, and a concept, it is just hot. Why though? And what makes it such an instant turn-on? There is nothing hotter than a woman who knows exactly what she wants in bed and is vocal about how much she wants it.

When it comes to receiving oral sex, many women's default position is to get on their backs. And there's a lot to be said for that: You can relax and let your partner worry about what to do. But there's also a lot to be said for receiving oral on top, AKA face-sitting. For one thing, it puts you in complete control, and some women find that it also provides a better angle. If straddling your partner's face sounds intimidating, we get it. If you've never tried face-sitting, it can feel incredibly vulnerable. Here's how to try it without feeling totally out of your comfort zone.

Oh you want me to go down on you This isn't making sense. I see what's going on here. This took me a second. We're going to shake things up, aren't we?

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